Frustrating Elders in Pendleton (where I live)

The missionaries live just down the street from me and our mail boxes are right next to each other. When we have a letter going out we have to put up a flag so the mailman will take it. I go by the flags to see if the mail has come. Anyway one day the mail had come and they went out later and put the flag up. I didn't know that the ma...il had come so I continued to wait. I finally decided to just go out and check. Well the mail had come. Anyway tonight at FHE I was talking to them and told them to not put the flag up if the mail had already come. They asked why I got so excited for the mail I wasn't a missionary. I said yeah but I have a missionary and they were like distracting from the work, distracting from the work. I was so close to saying jealous. I'm slightly hurt though. I know I'm not distracting but it hurts when people who don't know me or missionary well judge us. Sorry this was so long.